On Grief:
- We are But a Moment’s Sunlight (A collection of poetry about grief) – by C. Adler and S. Adler
- Tuesdays with Morrie – by Mitch Albom
- The Sacred Journey – by Frederick Buechner
- A Sacred Sorrow: Reaching Out to God in the Lost Language of Lament – Michael Card
- Learning to Live Again – Sue Carpenter
- When Things Fall Apart – Pema Chodron
- How to Survive the Loss of a Love – Colgrove, Bloomfield & McWilliams
- When Life and Beliefs Collide – Carolyn Curtis James
- Being Mortal – Atul Gawande
- Going to Pieces without Falling Apart – Mark Epstein
- Coping – Frederick Flach
- Concerning Death: A Practical Guide for the Living – Earl Grollman (ed.)
- Healing Grief – Amy Hillyard Jensen
- Life Lessons – Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
- On Death and Dying – Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
- Overcoming Life’s Disappointments – Harold Kushner
- When Bad Things Happen to Good People – Harold Kushner
- A Grief Observed – C.S. Lewis
- Don’t Take My Grief Away – Doug Manning
- The Awakened Heart – Gerald May
- When Going to Pieces Holds You Together – William A. Miller
- In the Midst of Winter: Selections from the Literature of Mourning – Mary Jane Moffat
- Dark Nights of the Soul – Thomas Moore
- Grief and How to Live With It – Sarah Morris
- What Can I say? How to Help Someone Who is Grieving: A Guide – Kelly Osmont
- Tear Soup – Pat Schweibert
- When Mourning Comes – W. Silverman & K. Cinnamon
- A Grace Disguised – Gerald Sittser
- Empty Branch: A Memoir – Marilyn Weisenburg
- Dark Night of the Soul – St. John of the Cross
- Living Through a Personal Crisis – Ann Kaiser Stearns
- When God Weeps – Joni Erikson Tada
- The Courage to Grieve – Judy Tatelbaum
- Living with an Empty Chair – Roberta Temes
- A Severe Mercy – Vanacken
- Good Grief – Granger Westberg
- Night – Eli Wiesel
- Lament for a Son – Nicholas Wolterstorff
- On Grief and Grieving – Elizabeth Kubler Ross and David Kessler
On Grieving Children:
- Books to Help Children Cope with Separation & Loss – Joanne Bernstein
- 35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child – Dougy Center (a pamphlet)
- Explaining Death to Children – Earl Grollman (Ed.)
- Talking About Death: A Dialogue Between Parent and Child – Earl Grollman (Ed.)
- When Someone Very Special Dies – Heegdard
- A Terrible Thing Happened – Holmes
- Helping Children Grieve – Huntley
- On Children and Death – Elizabeth Dubler-Ross
- Learning to Say Goodbye (helping children grieve the loss of a parent) – Eda LeShan
- Sad Isn’t Bad – Mundy
- It Must Hurt A Lot – Doris Sanford
- Tear Soup – Pat Schweibert
- I Miss You – Thomas
- Badger’s Parting Gifts – Susan Varley
- Helping Your Child to Understand Death – Anna Wolf
On Therapy and Personal Growth:
- Love’s Executioner – Irvin Yalom
- The Road Less Traveled – M. Scott Peck
- Telling Secrets – Frederick Buechner
- The Hero with a Thousand Faces – Joseph Campbell
- Hope and Dread in Psychoanalysis – Stephen A. Mitchell
- Engendered Lives: A New Psychology of Women’s Experience – Ellyn Kaschak
- Women Who Run with the Wolves – Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes
- The Artist’s Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity – Julia Cameron
- Growing Up Again – J. Clarke & C. Dawson
- The Awakened Heart – Gerald May
- Parables for Personal Growth – Melinda Reinicke
- Will and Spirit – Gerald May
On Marriage & Relationships:
- The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work – John Gottman
- Passionate Marriage – David Schnarch
- Intimacy and Desire – David Schnarch
- Wounds of Passion – Bell Hooks
- The Dance of Intimacy – Harriet Lerner
- The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships – Harriet Lerner
- How to Survive the Loss of a Love – Peter McWilliams
- Getting the Love you Want – Harville Hendrix
- Hold Me Tight – Sue Johnson
- Raising our Children, Raising Ourselves – Naomi Aldort
- Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls – Mary Pipher
- Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys – D. Kindlon & M. Thompson
On Living Through Change:
- Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changes – William Bridges
- Awakening at Midlife – Carolyn Brehony
- When the Heart Waits – Sue Monk Kidd
- Falling Upward – Richard Rohr
- Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life – James Hollis
- Living an Examined Life: Wisdom for the Second Half of the Journey – James Hollis
On Narcissism:
- Trapped in the Mirror – Elan Golomb
- Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Up’s Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents – N.W. Brown
On Addiction:
- False Intimacy – Harry Schaumburg
- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts – Gabor Mate
- Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction – Patrick Carnes
- Don’t Call it Love: Recovery from Sexual Addiction -Patrick Carnes
- Breathing Under Water – Richard Rohr
- A Gentle Guide Through the 12 Steps – Patrick Carnes
- Addiction and Grace – Gerald May
On Trauma:
- The Body Keeps the Score – Bessel van der Kolk
- The Heart of Trauma – Bonnie Badenoch
- The Polyvagal Theory – Stephen W. Porges
- I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings – Maya Anjelou
- Too Scared to Cry – Lenore Terr
- Trauma and Recovery – Judith Herman
- Principles of Trauma Therapy – John Briere, Catherine Scott
- The Secret Trauma – Diana Russell
- Thou Shalt Not be Aware – Alice Miller
- Outgrowing the Pain – Eliana Gil
- United We Stand – Eliana Gil
- Facing Shame – Merle Fossham & Marily Mason
- The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse – Jeff VanVonderham
- The Courage to Heal – Ellen Bass & Laura Davis
- Allies in Healing – Laura Davis
- Secret Survivors – E. Sue Blume
For Women:
- Here All Dwell Free: Stories to Heal the Wounded Feminine – Gertrud Mueller Nelson
- Redeeming Eve – Heather Webb
- Crossing to Avalon – Jean Shinoda Bolen
- Wise Woman Archetype: Menopause as Initiation – Jean Shinoda Bolen
- Women who Run with the Wolves – Clarissa Pinkola Estes
- Untie the Strong Woman – Clarissa Pinkola Estes
For Men:
- Real Boys – Willam Pollack
- Gods in Everyman: Archetypes that Shape Men’s Lives- Jean Shinoda Bolen
- I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression – Terrence Real
- From Wild Man to Wise Man – Richard Rohr
- Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life – James Hollis
On Spirituality:
- Spirituality of the Psalms – Walter Brueggemann
- Bless the Space Between Us – John O’Donahue
- Eternal Echoes – John O’Donahue
- I and Thou – Martin Buber
- The Magnificent Defeat – Frederick Buechner
- The Weight of Glory – C.S. Lewis
- The Places that Scare You – Pema Chodron
- The Dance of the Dissident Daughter – Sue Monk Kidd
- The Beginning of Desire – Avivah Zornberg
- Braving the Wilderness – Brene Brown
- The Post-Evangelical – Dave Tomlinson
- My Grandfather’s Blessings – Rachel Naomi Remen
On Attachment:
- Being and Loving – Althea Horner
- Attachemnt and Loss – J. Bowlby
- Attachement in Psychotherapy – David Wallin
- Attachement Theory and Close Relationships – K.A. Brennan
- Attachment Across the Life Cycle – M.D.S. Ainsworth
- Attached – Amir Levine
- Attachment Theory in Practice – Sue Johnson
- Hold me Tight – Sue Johnson